Saturday, May 4, 2013

Being FLEXIBLE

Dear Family and Friends,
 
We finally made it to Gary's 1st post transplant clinic appointment -- Third times the charm!  He'd been scheduled for two other appointments, but ended up back in the hospital before he could make it to either one.  Several doctors that had seen him in the hospital as well as some of the other clinic workers commented about him finally making it to his scheduled appointment.  We left home at around 9:15am and got  home around 5PM so it was a very long day.  Part of that time did involve travel and parking -- approximately 45 minutes going in and approximately 1 1/2 hours going home -- you have to love Chicago traffic and be FLEXIBLE.  Thankfully, over the years of living out here, I've gotten used to driving on the Eisenhower. 
 
The word of the day is FLEXIBLE.  I've decided that these clinic days are going to be long days and that one needs to be FLEXIBLE and realize that things will more then likely not go as planned.  We were told to get Gary's blood work done first at the out patient lab but, when we got there, the "lab order" that we had been given was not, according to the receptionist at the lab, on the correct paper and also, we needed to go to registration first.  Rather then make Gary walk all over since he still is gaining his "walking legs" back, the receptionist suggested he stay there and I go to registration and also to the clinic for the proper paper work -- Good thing we did it that way because even though walking is not my strong suit either, right now I can walk much better and faster then Gary (we'll see how long that lasts).
 
His appointment went well, overall.  They answered questions that we had, explained some of the things they wanted him to change in his diet, for example, get this, he needs MORE salt! -- not something most people are told.  It's been interesting changing his diet already since he can now eat like most people i.e. not restricted anymore from sweets because of the diabetes, not restricted anymore from things like kidney beans, split peas, whole grains,  foods with a lot of potassium and phosphorous, because of the kidneys.  Good thing we're used to being FLEXIBLE in what we eat.  The only food that he cannot have is grapefruit because of how it interacts with the anti-rejection medications he is on.  He also needs to work on drinking more fluids.  Before the surgery, since his kidneys were hardly working, he didn't drink a lot, so now, he has to learn to drink a lot more.  Apparently, he's still not drinking enough since some of his blood work and vital signs indicate that he still is somewhat dehydrated.
 
They also changed some of his medications based on his vital signs and his blood work -- added a new medication and changed the dosage of one of the others they  already had him on.  I we also need to start checking his blood glucose each morning when he wakes up before he eats, check his blood pressure (both sitting and standing), pulse, and temperature each day.  He has to take medicine 4 times a day (I have my alarm on my phone set for the 4 times).  The most important is making sure he takes his anti-rejection medications twice a day 12 hours apart (9AM, 12 noon, 5 PM, and 9PM).  I finally set his pills up for the week -- hopefully I won't regret that, since I'm still learning what pills he needs to take when as well as what they all look like, and when the dosage changes, I usually need to separate them all and start all over.  Very few of the medications he takes now are the same as what he took before surgery.  My understanding is that the medications will be changing quite frequently for awhile until all of his numbers in his blood work level out, so again we need to be FLEXIBLE.
 
If my understanding is correct, it looks like for now, as long as he's doing well, that we will have to go for blood work on Tuesdays and then blood work again on Fridays as well as see the doctors at the transplant clinic at UIC.  The Tuesday blood work can be done locally so we plan to do that.  Friday, we'll have to figure will be another long day.  We'll have to stay FLEXIBLE as I won't be surprised of changes happening in both of these either.
 
Good thing I was FLEXIBLE and packed lots of snacks (Peanut Butter and jelly sandwiches, grapes, 3 crystal light packets for Gary besides the cup he had with him already, and water and of course, coffee for me), to make it through the long day.  Right now Gary's appetite hasn't all the way returned, so this was all we needed until we were home again. 
 
As of tonight, Gary has been home the longest time since he's had the transplant surgery -- hopefully things will keep going well.
 
Please keep praying that Gary will continue to do well at home and also continue to pray for strength and energy for all of us.  We're all very tired.
 
Thank you all for your continued thoughts and prayers.  They mean a lot to us. 
 
Love,
Nelly and family
 
Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies?  Yet not one of them is forgotten by God.  Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered.  Don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.
                                                      ----  Luke 12:6-7 NIV
    
 

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